Who's bad?

You probably have made the experience when a person, usually a female, starts complaining about another person, usually another female. No, I am not being sexist here, I am the same sex myself. However, it is true that guys are less complicated... well, at least most of them. They might fight in the one second and in the next second they and are best friends again. All gone and forgotten. It doesn't work that way with women. They don't even need to fight, because talking behind each other's backs is so much easier. Complaining to another person is not too bad actually- you don't want to let the other one know you don't like her; well this is fine. BUT only if you can let go. Yes, that person might annoy you. She doesn't behave like you would like her to, she doesn't dress like you would like her to, she doesn't speak as you would like her to, or whatever pushes your edges and makes her bad in your eyes... SO WHAT? Do you realize that such continued complains are actually called bitching and that they turn even the prettiest girl in the world into a very ugly one? So,

who is bad now?

Love

Nora